Be Like A Magnet

A very spiritual woman I know shared the following with me: she said, 'I used to have unfortunate beliefs about myself and I received back from external influences unfortunate results. When I decided to take control and raise my resonance, to be the change I wanted to become, to allow abundance and love come flow through me, absolutely everything fell into place. I am now living a life of leisure with a beautiful husband and I can draw what I want into my universe at will.'

What is a love magnet, money magnet, or health magnet? What does it take to become a magnet?

It takes a shift in perception and really, that's all it takes.

We choose what we focus on in life. We choose to be miserable when it rains and happy when it's sunny. Or we can appreciate the downpour as an opportunity to take care of indoor activities or to go splashing through puddles.

When we focus on good, good comes to us. When we focus on grief, we grieve. This is not to say there's no place for grief in life, it's just to say, we need to be mindful that we're not suffering over our own suffering. We do not need to be grief magnets.

I overheard a girl in a caf telling her friend, 'I'm a total freak magnet. I can't leave my apartment without running into someone either clinically insane or whacked out on drugs or fanatical about some weirdness who wants to have extensive interaction with me.'

The friend responded, 'That's so strange. You live in a really nice place, in a really nice neighborhood. You wouldn't think there'd be that many weirdoes around.'

'They're everywhere I am. It's like they're out there waiting for me to leave my house just so they can shout in my face or try to get me to join their cult.'

Of course, I didn't interrupt, but I thought to myself, how awful for this girl to believe this about herself. She's unconsciously drawing the lowest common denominator to her by putting out this energy into the world.

This is really how attraction works. What you think about yourself, you are. What you believe about the world, is your reality. What you speak, is your truth.

I almost wanted to say to her, 'You know, you could just as easily not be a 'freak magnet' by simply telling yourself that you're another kind of magnet.' Then I realized that, sadly, my intrusion would only further confirm her self-diagnosis and she'd misinterpret my advice as more freakery, as in, 'Yeah, this guy came up to me in the caf and told me to be another kind of magnet. He looked pretty normal, but what a freak!'

Whatever your beliefs, I implore you, take this freak's advice and adjust your expectations of what the world is going to bring you and start requesting only good and not the lowest common denominator.

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Kenrick Cleveland teaches techniques to earn the business of wealthy clients using persuasion. He runs public and private seminars and offers home study courses and coaching programs in persuasion techniques.

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